I think those of us on sites like this are tuned to a slightly higher sexual frequency, and for me there's nothing more exciting than seeing that energy in embodied in someone else, in whichever form (whether coy, cruel, alluring and titillating, or aggressively passionate and exuberant). It's going to be several more months before my spouse is home again and even then there's no guarantee at the beach as to when our sex life will be able to resume.