No, it doesn't count if you're attached or married then look elsewhere! I am short and cuddly and recently started going to the gym to get my body fit and bikini ready. Someone who's respectful, non-judgemental, and doesn't care about race or color. If your not interested in meeting up and just want to sext or chat I encourage that too but don't arrange something and pull out last minute.
Is warm and expressing their desires and feelings respectfully.